Im dating a boring woman
In the past, when I have discovered myself dating a woman who is boring and dull, I have privately nicknamed her “Betty Boring”.
And when we as a couple have together become extremely boring together, I have referred to us as "Bob and Betty Boring".
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When I used the "; Bob and Betty Boring" reference openly, my dullard girlfriends did not get especially upset with me - primarily because I've always been a big joker, and they came to expect something like that from me.
Plus I was referring to both of us - not just her ... But privately - I knew she was really the boring one!
Of course, if your goal is just a hookup, then you won't care if they're compatible overall, but if you're actually seeking a long term releationship, the initial slow period of email exchanges is a benefit.
I've never gone to online dating because of the reason you're saying.
Before you know it, you’ll meet a few people and have a few interesting experiences to talk about on your next first date.
As a midlife bachelor, you can date a dullard - just be prepared to be bored.
And be prepared for the fact that YOU will always need to create all of the excitement in the relationship, as dullard women are followers, not leaders.
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